came into this world, not chiefly to make this a good place to live
in, but to live in it, be it good or bad.
live is to open ourselves to possibility, to rule out nothing. There
is no way we can spare ourselves, or those we love, the pains of
living, because they are inseparable from the joys. How grandiose we
are when we think we can save the world.
we can do – and it`s quite a lot- is to live the best way we can,
achieving a balance amid the forces that pull on us: pleasure,
responsibility, power,love. If we can live so that we respond to all
of them, rule out none, we will have the best the world can give.
quality all great people seem to share is humor- the capacity to see
our struggles and triumphs with detachment. Not that our life is
unimportant, but that it`s only a part of the huge web of life on
we can keep our lives in balance, we won`t get puffed up by any
little triumph, or squashed by a defeat. We`ll keep on with our
lives, confident that we`re doing our best.
me not forget – my chief business in life is living.
Feel free and happy in your life
that is your birthright....
and look for good hearted people who gives you a good company with respect and an open clear mind ....Aloha
wait of someone else, or to expect someone else to make my life
richer, or fuller, or more satisfying, puts me in a constant state of
tempting it is to make another person responsible for our happiness,
and how absurd. To give such power to others means we`re at their
mercy; it does not mean we`re happy. Where are, accepting full
responsibility for our own acts and feelings does give us the power
to be happy as we choose, as often as we choose.
maturity precludes our blaming or praising another for our personal
well- being. There is reason to be exhilarated that we are blessed
with as much control as we choose to have over our own growth,
happiness and commitment to change. WE`re in another`s control only
by choice- never by necessity. And when we`ve given our precious poer
away, we`re reduced to waiting for someone else`s nod of approval,
waiting for their invitation to live.
time is now to decide for myself who I am, where I`m going and why!
The time is now!